He’s Not a Quitter. If he doesn’t fall in love with you, it wasn’t meant to be. If he can’t take his eyes off you, even if you’ve been together a while and he hasn’t said “I love you”, you can bet he does with the way he looks at you.. 15. A guy who’s in love with a girl always listens to her and remembers what she says, even if it’s something trivial because he takes her seriously. Someone who can't say "I love you" may have a fear of being rejected when they express their feelings. There is a Russian proverb that says “When a man says he loves you, watch his feet.” The meaning of this is that words can lie, but actions often reveal a person’s true feelings. For example, in his mind, he may show you he loves you by sending you text messages each morning, surprising you with gifts, and spending as much time as he can with you. He keeps you away from your friends and family (Sad to say, complimenting him on his sensitivity will please him because it pleases you, but it won't massage him in those little-boy spots that most need the rub.) 2. I rolled over one morning turning to my wife and asked what happened to us. Understand the difference between someone who can't say "I love you" and someone who won't say "I love you!" But just because he hasn’t said it yet doesn’t mean he won’t in the future, and it's important to respect the fact that your guy may need more time to develop loving feelings for you. Sadly, a man who doesn’t love you anymore won’t give you the time of day. Slowly, you’ll become invisible.

After my last relationship ended, I had a revelation: Despite feeling love for my partner and — I think, anyway — showing love, I could not say, “I love you.” Not when he flew across the country for my birthday, nor when we talked under the starlight at an AirBnB in the middle of a Redwood forest.
Because he doesnš’t love you anymore. We then proceeded to have the most heart wrenching discussion of my life. Review these 21 signs to determine whether you indeed are in love with your boyfriend. If you’ve had your first fight and he isn’t running for the hills, there’s a good chance he sees potential in this relationship and is already invested in making it work. We can see it in actions and in His Word. 33.

And I’m also trying to be less devastated when my boyfriend says, “I know,” or “Thank you,” or nothing at all in response. So does your guy really love you, even if he doesn’t express his love through words? All his past relationship experiences, along with his personality, will impact how long it takes him. I still say “ I love you” a lot, but I’m trying to be more careful with it, to make sure that it carries weight.

Others won’t say I love you but express their feelings of love through actions, behavior, or affection. That doesn’t mean you should give up on him if he isn’t exactly where you want him to be. I bet if you step away, you’ll see a million reasons why that’s true. Not in the slightest.
Few things are as sacrificial as a woman in love. [Read: 25 easy tips to make your boyfriend happy everyday] #1 He remembers what you say. For instance, some people say, “I love you,” after three months of being together, while others say these three important words after a year. When she is telling you about her day, she isn’t just reciting facts. She won’t sacrifice for you. For some men, just being close or cuddling is a stronger expression of their love than the three magic words. When a woman reduces communication with a man, it’s a sign that she doesn’t love him. My boyfriend and I say, “I’m obsessed with you.” because obsession is more acceptable than love at this point. He will stop noticing how cute and beautiful you are because you’re not working for him anymore. But give him time. 3.